Boot
camps are military-style, semi-penal institutions
that use discipline, military exercises, and rigorous
physical training to "break" a defiant
adolescent and supposedly return home a "good
soldier" who will obey authority, follow
rules, and improve behavior at home and school.
Why would a parent want to send a troubled teen
to a program that was originally intended for
adolescents who have been prosecuted for criminal
acts? It is not an environment intended to modify
behavior through self-understanding. It is an
environment that seeks to scare kids straight,
a method that has proven time and again to have
only short-term results.
These boot camps were created as a short-term
alternative to military boarding schools. The
idea is that you break the child's will (spirit?)
and teach them that they are not the center of
the universe.
Boot Camps are often short-term, however, long-term
boot camps have increased in popularity for their
ability to help defiant adolescents improve their
behavior at home and school. They are modeled
after military-style, military exercises, and
intense physical training focusing on reality,
respect and responsibility. Many teens lack these
qualities, yet they desperately need them in order
to successfully transition into adulthood. This
experience can help teens replace destructive
attitudes and behaviors with new perspectives
and direction in their lives. The theology behind
a short-term camp being that a "quick reality
check" will turn a child around who has been
acting out. These boot camp style programs are
usually ineffective for teens that have developed
bad habits over a long period of time and are
in need of long term change.
Boot camps have come under fire recently with
health and safety issues. Some may attempt to
push a child too much or may be to extreme with
their in your face approach. Many choose to use
too much military drill instructor techniques.
While the drill sergeant may have success with
military basic training cadets who have voluntarily
gone to boot camp. Ex-drill sergeants may be ineffective
with a struggling teen that is not as motivated
as some one enrolled into the military.
Are Boot Camps the answer for all youth?
Boot camps are definitely not the answer for
all children. There are children that need a more
clinical setting than a boot camp. If a child
has suicidal issues, is severely depressed, self
mutilating, or has a serious psychiatric diagnosis
they would be better served in a therapeutic boarding
school, residential treatment center, or in some
cases even a psychiatric hospital. Most of the
boot camps we work with do not really have any
therapy or counseling other than what is called
Christian counseling. This is equivalent to advice
being given by a minister or church leader of
some type. If the child is well adjusted, but
just defiant this may be all he or she would need.
If the child does have psychiatric issues they
need to under the supervision of a trained professional.
Teen boot camps are rarely the best choice for
a truly troubled teenager. They need to face their
basic emotional and behavioral issues as well
as discover and be taught behaviors and positive
interactions that will improve their academic
performance, personal relationships, and personal
success. It is change that occurs through self-revelation
that has the longest and most permanent effect
on any human being. Give your child the opportunity
to learn more about him or her, and then discover
that he or she can be a positive part of the community.
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